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Waarom we gezien willen worden
Een tijd voor empathie: wat de natuur ons leert over een betere samenleving. – Frans de Waal | 9789025432119
A Secret Language: Infrasonic Communication in Elephants – The Care Project Foundation
The Mystery of Animal Grief – Jeffrey Kluger, Time.com
The Loudest Voice in the Animal Kingdom – Zoe Cormier, BBC Earth
In iedere vader schuilt een prima moeder – Hendrik Spiering, NRC
Nature & Nurture Ep. 6: Dr. Alex Bezzerides. Evolution Gone Wrong: Why Our Bodies Work (or Don’t) – Nature & Nurture podcast
New Study to Examine Role of Oxytocin in the Developing Brain – Jim Maxwell, Kent State University
Brain Reward System – Olivia Guy-Evans, Simply Psychology
How Can Dopamine Affect the Body? – Ann Pietrangelo, Healthline.com
Social Science 101: This is Your Brain on Social – Samuel Centre for Social Connectedness
‘Happy hormone’ dopamine plays role in identifying emotions – University of Birmingham
What are the differences between serotonin and dopamine? – Jamie Eske, Medical News Today
Dopamine: The pathway to pleasure – Harvard Health Publishing
Love and the Brain – Scott Edwards, Harvard Medical School
A Theory of Human Motivation – A. H. Maslow (1943), gepubliceerd in Psychological Review, 50, 370‑396.
Who Created Maslow’s Iconic Pyramid? – Scott Barry Kaufman, Scientific American.
How to Use Maslow’s Pyramid in Your Business Model – Mailchimp
If You Don’t: Saving the World by Doing Nothing – Donald Roos & Anne de Bruijn | 9789063697006
Jimmy Carr: “There’s A Crisis Going On With Men!” – Interview by Steven Bartlett, The Diary of a CEO podcast.
Tjipcast: Wat gebeurt er in ons brein als we leren? – Tjip de Jong, Tjipcast podcast.
A Theory of Social Comparison Processes – Leon Festinger, Human Relations (1954).
A Social Comparison Theory Meta-Analysis 60+ Years On – Gerber, J.P., Wheeler, L., & Suls, J., Psychological Bulletin (2018).
De uitzonderlijke mens
You’re Dead To Me: The History of Fandom – Hosted by Greg Jenner, BBC Radio 4, 16 September 2022.
Greg Jenner heeft ook een boek geschreven over beroemdheid – Dead Famous: An Unexpected History of Celebrity, From Bronze Age To Silver Screen.
I Love You, Lord Byron: How the Poet’s Postbag Bulged with Female Admirers – Arifa Akbar, The Independent.
Mass Communication and Para-Social Interaction: Observations on Intimacy at a Distance – D. Horton & R. Richard Wohl, Psychiatry (1956).
Online Hate: We Need to Improve Content Moderation to Effectively Tackle Hate Speech – European Union Agency for Fundamental Rights.
Not All Bad: Social Media Also Have a Positive Impact on Mental Health – Philippe Verduyn, Maastricht University.
New Research Shows How TikTok and YouTube Shorts Are Bombarding Users with Misogynist Content – Debbie Ging et al., Dublin City University.
Nietzsche on Genius and Mastery – Academy of Ideas.
Why Are We So Obsessed with Celebrities? – Dr. Paul Harrison, Deakin University.
What is Beauty? – J.R. Corbett, Ulster Medical Journal (2009).
Is a Symmetrical Face Really Attractive? – Harun NA, Adam KBC, Abdullah NA, Rusli N., International Journal of Oral and Maxillofacial Surgery (2023).
Facial Attractiveness: Evolutionary Based Research – Little AC, Jones BC, DeBruine LM, Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B (2011).
Beauty Behavioral Ecology: Dr. Marta Kowal – Podcast episode, 7 October 2024.
Study of Hunter-Gatherers Suggests Team-Based Play Fighting Builds Up the Skills Used in Lethal Raiding – Eric W. Dolan, PsyPost.
Life Magazine – 15 August 1938 – Time Inc., gedigitaliseerd via Google Books.
How does Usain Bolt run so fast? – David Rhodes, BBC News.
Turnen is Gelegaliseerde Kindermishandeling – Michiel de Hoog, De Correspondent.
Botte Hakbijl of Emancipatiemotor? – Sanne Bloemink, De Groene Amsterdammer.
Mathematical Treasure: Ada Lovelace’s Notes on the Analytic Engine – Frank J. Swetz, Mathematical Association of America.
What Art Does for Your Brain – Jill Suttie, Greater Good Magazine, 25 April 2023.
Letter from Vincent van Gogh to Theo and Jo van Gogh-Bonger, circa 21 May 1890 – Vincent van Gogh, via Vincent Van Gogh The Letters.
Genius: A Very Short Introduction – Andrew Robinson | 9780199594405
Artist Describes How Art Saved Her Life – Lamberg, L., Psychiatric News (2017).
Are You More Risk-Seeking When Helping Others? – Liu C, Xiao X, Pi Q, Tan Q, Zhan Y., Frontiers in Psychology (2023).
Harriet Tubman Biography – Shay Dawson, National Women’s History Museum.
Vertel me wie ik ben
Understanding Human Genetic Variation – National Institutes of Health (US); Biological Sciences Curriculum Study. NIH Curriculum Supplement Series [Internet]. Bethesda (MD): National Institutes of Health (US); 2007.
Het complete dna van de mens werd twintig jaar geleden voor het eerst in kaart gebracht. Wat die mijlpaal heeft opgeleverd? Nou, erg veel. – Maartje Bakker, De Volkskrant, 15 mei 2021.
Study finds that fear can travel quickly through generations of mice DNA – Meeri Kim, Washington Post.
Epigenetics & The Full Story of Inheritance with Bianca Jones-Martin – Podcast episode, Startalk with Neil DeGrasse Tyson, 6 September 2024.
Genetic influence on athletic performance – L. M. Guth & S. M. Roth, Current opinion in pediatrics (2013).
Kenyan and Ethiopian distance runners: what makes them so good? – R. L. Wilber & Y. P. Pitsiladis, International journal of sports physiology and performance (2012).
Innate talent is adaptable – comment on Baker & Wattie – Michael Romann, Current Issues in Sport Science (CISS) (2019).
The Wilson Effect: The Increase in Heritability of IQ With Age – T. J. Bouchard, Twin Research and Human Genetics (2013).
Intelligence and culture: how culture shapes what intelligence means, and the implications for a science of well–being – F. A. Huppert, N. Baylis, B. Keverne, Robert J. Sternberg, and Elena L. Grigorenko, Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B.
Childhoods of Exceptional People – Henrik Karlsson, 6 February 2023.
Genes, brain dynamics and art: the genetic underpinnings of creativity in dancing, musicality and visual arts – Marinos G. Sotiropoulos, Maria Anagnostouli, Journal of Integrative Neuroscience (2021).
Perfect Pitch, Explained – Max Wyitynski, University of Chicago.
HEXACO model of personality structure – Wikipedia.
Indigenous Chinese Personality Constructs: Is the Five-Factor Model Complete? – F.M. Cheung et al., Boom Psychologie.
Big Five as Universals from Culture and Psychology - How People Shape and are Shaped by Culture – L D Worthy, T Lavigne, and F Romero, Maricopa Open Digital Press.
Human Personality Is Associated with Geographical Environment in Mainland China – L. Xu, Y. Luo, X. Wen, Z. Sun, C. Chao, T. Xia, & L. Xu, International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health (2022).
The lay of the land: Associations between environmental features and personality – I. E. Militaru, G. Serapio-García, T. Ebert, W. Kong, S. D. Gosling, J. Potter, P. J. Rentfrow, & F. M. Götz, Journal of Personality (2024).
Social and Emotional Development in Adolescence – Diana Lang, Nick Cone, Alisa Beyer, Julie Lazzara, Martha Lally, Suzanne Valentine-French, and OpenStax College, Individual and Family Development, Health, and Well‑being.
Epigenetics of Stress, Addiction, and Resilience: Therapeutic Implications – J. L. Cadet, Molecular Neurobiology (2016).
What Are the Benefits of Mindfulness? A Practice Review of Psychotherapy-Related Research – Daphne M. Davis and Jeffrey A. Hayes, Psychotherapy (2011).
Psychische stoornissen in de mondzorgpraktijk – M.M. Bildt D.L.M. Broers, University of Groningen.
The use of social networking sites, body image dissatisfaction and Body Dysmorphic Disorder: A systematic review of psychological research – Ryding, C. F. & Kuss, D. J. (2019), Nottingham Trent University.
New trends in facial plastic surgery – Thomas Kugler, American Academy of Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery (2023).
Complexity and the Ten Thousand Hour Rule – Malcolm Gladwell, The New Yorker.
The No.1 Productivity Expert: 10,000 Hours Is A Lie! – The Diary of a CEO podcast, hosted by Steven Bartlett with guest David Epstein.
Paris Olympics: Simone Biles – Will Graves, Associated Press.
Interview Laurent Landi – GymCastic, YouTube.
Tjipcast: Wat gebeurt er in ons brein als we leren? – met host Tjip de Jong en hoogleraar Harold Bekkering, Tjipcast podcast, 10 Nov 2024.
Sharper Minds, Richer Worlds: The Cognitive Benefits of Learning a Second Language – Kendal at Oberlin.
Brain changes seen in cabbies who take ‘The Knowledge’ – BBC News.
Culture and Psychology:How People Shape and are Shaped by Culture. Lisa Worthy, Trisha Lavigne and Fernando Romero. Glendale Community College.
Patterns and sources of personality development in old age – C. Kandler, A.E. Kornadt, B. Hagemeyer, F.J. Neyer, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (2015).
Wat je waard bent
Comparisons Inform Me Who I Am: A General Comparative-Processing Model of Self-Perception – Morina, N. (2021). Perspectives on Psychological Science.
Not all emotions are created equal: the negativity bias in social-emotional development – Vaish A, Grossmann T, Woodward A. Psychol Bull. 2008.
Social Norms: Do We Love Norms Too Much? – Bell, David & Cox, Mary. (2015). Journal of Family Theory & Review.
Social identity and self-regulation – Oyserman, D. (2007). In A. W. Kruglanski & E. T. Higgins (Eds.), Social psychology: Handbook of basic principles (2nd ed., pp. 432–453). The Guilford Press.
Bama Rush – Rachel Fleit, HBO films, 2023.
Identity Fusion – Swann, William & Buhrmester, Michael. (2015). Current Directions in Psychological Science. 24. 52‑57.
Why do I get so upset when my team loses? – Why do we do that? Series 2, episode 2. Hosted by Ella Al-Shamahi, with psychologist Martha Newsom.
Foundations of interpersonal trust – Simpson, Jeffry. (2007).
Facial resemblance enhances trust – DeBruine, Lisa M. 2002.
An integrative theory of intergroup conflict – Tajfel, H., & Turner, J. C. (1979). In W. G. Austin, & S. Worchel (Eds.), The social psychology of intergroup relations (pp. 33-37). Monterey, CA: Brooks/Cole.
Social identity theory – Saul McLeod, Simply Psychology.
Intergroup Conflict and Cooperation: The Robbers Cave Experiment – Muzafer Sherif, O. J. Harvey, B. Jack White, William R. Hood, Carolyn W. Sherif (1954/1961).
Stanford prison experiment – Wikipedia.
When America Despised the Irish – Christopher Klein.
New York City draft riots – Wikipedia.
The New York City Draft Riots of 1863 – from
In the Shadow of Slavery by Leslie M. Harris, University of Chicago Press.
Racism and Discrimination Lead to Faster Aging Through Brain Network Changes, New Study Finds – Nathaniel Harnett & Negar Fani, Harvard Catalyst.
Rassen bestaan niet. Toch moeten artsen soms ingeven tot welk ‘ras’ hun patiënt behoort – Liesbeth Gijsel, EOS Wetenschap.
When corrections fail: The persistence of political misperceptions – Nyhan, B., & Reifler, J. Political Behavior, 32(2), 303–330. APA PsycNet.
Gender Nonconformity Is Perceived Differently for Cisgender and Transgender Targets – Broussard, K.A., Warner, R.H. Sex Roles 80 (2019).
Distinctiveness threat and prototypicality: combined effects on intergroup discrimination and collective self-esteem – Jetten, J., Spears, R., & Manstead, ASR. (1997). European Journal of Social Psychology.
Het duurde lang voor de zwarte huid kon schitteren in de film – André Waardenburg, NRC.
Make-up of puur natuur verbluffend: A Different Man gaat over wie personage met beperking kan spelen – Coen van Zwol, NRC.
The home of FOMO – Ben Schreckinger, Boston Magazine.
U.S. surgeon general: I am concerned about social media and youth mental health – Vivek H. Murthy, Washington Post.
Teens and Cyberbullying 2022 – Emily A. Vogels, Pew Research Center.
Social media quit: teen toxic – Jenna Bloom, Washington Post.
Constant craving: How digital media turned us all into dopamine addicts and what we can do to break the cycle – Jamie Waters, The Guardian.
Inkomensongelijkheid in Nederland ruim onder het EU-gemiddelde – CBS.
56 procent vermogen in handen van 10 procent huishoudens – CBS.
Een steuntje in de rug: vermogensmobiliteit van ouder op kind – CPB.
Who Created Maslow’s Iconic Pyramid? – Scott Barry Kaufman, Scientific American
The Blackfoot Wisdom That Inspired Maslow’s Hierarchy – Teju Ravilochan, Esperanza Project.
Reconsidering Maslow and the hierarchy of needs from a First Nations’ perspective – Bear, Roy & Choate, Peter & Lindstrom, Gabrielle. (2022). Aotearoa New Zealand Social Work.
Professor Gabrielle Lindstrom on Maslow & Indigenous History – Seattle Anxiety Specialists.
Onderlinge micro-hulp blijkt overal vanzelfsprekend – Hendrik Spiering, NRC.
Verliefd, verloofd, getrouwd, verloren: hoe leef je verder na het ergst denkbare – Carlijn Vis, NRC.